In relationships with narcissists, the partner who is not a narcissist, often referred to as the "narcissist's partner" or "narcissistic supply," may or may not be fully aware of the narcissist's other sources of narcissistic supply. It depends on various factors, including the dynamics of the specific relationship, the level of deception employed by the narcissist, and the awareness and perception of the partner.
Narcissists are individuals who have a strong need for admiration, a lack of empathy for others, and an exaggerated sense of self-importance. They often seek validation, attention, and admiration from others, which is known as narcissistic supply. This supply can come from multiple sources, such as romantic partners, friends, colleagues, or family members.
In some cases, the partner of a narcissist may be aware that the narcissist seeks validation and attention from other people, but they might not fully understand the extent of it or the depth of the narcissist's manipulative behavior. Narcissists are skilled at presenting different facades to different people, and they may hide certain aspects of their behavior from their partners.
On the other hand, some partners of narcissists may be more aware of the narcissist's manipulative tendencies and may have noticed patterns of infidelity, deceit, or emotional manipulation. In these cases, the partner may feel trapped or unable to leave the relationship due to various reasons, such as emotional dependency, fear, or a belief that they can change the narcissist.
It's essential to recognize that being in a relationship with a narcissist can be emotionally challenging and can have significant effects on the partner's well-being. If you or someone you know is in a relationship with a narcissist and is experiencing distress, seeking support from a therapist or counselor can be beneficial. Professional help can provide insights, coping strategies, and guidance on navigating such complex relationship dynamics.