I understand that you don't want to discuss further details, and that's completely fine. Going no contact with a narcissistic ex-partner is a healthy decision to protect yourself from further emotional harm. As for why your ex-narcissist did not go after you, there could be several reasons:
Loss of Control: By going no contact, you have taken control of the situation and removed yourself from their manipulation. Narcissists thrive on controlling others, and when they sense they are losing control, they may move on to other targets who are more easily manipulated.
Seeking New Supply: Narcissists often seek out new sources of validation and attention, known as "narcissistic supply." If they find a new target or supply, they may become less interested in pursuing you.
Ego Protection: Some narcissists may not want to pursue someone who has rejected them or ended the relationship as it could be a blow to their ego. They might prefer to save face and act as though they are not bothered by the rejection.
Lack of Empathy: Narcissists typically lack genuine empathy for others, so they might not feel the need to chase after someone who they believe is no longer serving their needs or providing them with attention.
Boredom and Short Attention Span: Narcissists can become easily bored and have a short attention span. If you're no longer giving them the excitement or attention they desire, they may move on to someone else.
It's essential to remember that every narcissist is different, and their behavior can vary based on their personality, past experiences, and individual motivations. Regardless of their reasons for not pursuing you, going no contact is a positive step towards protecting yourself and healing from the effects of the toxic relationship. Focus on your well-being, and if you find yourself struggling with the aftermath of the relationship, consider seeking support from friends, family, or a therapist who can help you through the healing process.