Regarding the specific situation you mentioned, it appears to be related to personal and private matters involving the British royal family, particularly Prince Harry, Meghan Markle, and other members. I don't have access to real-time or recent events, including information from any book titled "Spare" or specific statements made by individuals.
It's essential to approach information from various sources critically and consider multiple perspectives before forming an opinion. Royal family dynamics and personal relationships can be complex and subject to interpretation and differing accounts.