Narcissists can think about and miss people, but their experience of these emotions may differ from how non-narcissistic individuals experience them. Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is characterized by a pattern of grandiosity, a need for admiration, and a lack of empathy. As a result, narcissists often have shallow and self-centered relationships with others.
When a narcissist thinks about someone and misses them, it is typically more about how that person served their needs or reflected positively on their self-image, rather than a genuine emotional connection or concern for the other person's well-being.
Narcissists may miss the attention, admiration, or validation they received from someone. If that person provided a significant source of narcissistic supply (positive feedback, attention, and admiration), the narcissist might feel a sense of loss when that supply is no longer available. However, their "missing" is not the same as genuine empathy or emotional attachment.
It is important to recognize that being in a relationship with a narcissist can be emotionally challenging and potentially harmful. Their manipulative and self-centered behaviors can cause significant emotional harm to those around them. If you suspect you are dealing with a narcissistic individual, it's essential to set boundaries, seek support, and consider professional help if needed.