Yes, when narcissists love bomb you after the discard, they might lead you to believe that you are "the one" again. Love bombing is a manipulative tactic used by narcissists and other manipulative individuals to regain control and re-establish the relationship after a period of devaluation or discard.
During the love bombing phase, the narcissist will shower the person with excessive affection, attention, compliments, gifts, and promises of a better future together. They do this to exploit the victim's emotional vulnerabilities, create a sense of euphoria, and reel them back into the relationship.
The narcissist's intentions during the love bombing phase are not genuine love or care for the other person. Instead, they are motivated by the desire to regain control and narcissistic supply, which is the admiration, attention, and validation they receive from the victim.
The reasons why a narcissist may engage in love bombing after a discard include:
Narcissistic Supply: Love bombing ensures a steady flow of narcissistic supply. By making the victim believe they are "the one" again, the narcissist gains the admiration and attention they crave.
Fear of Losing Control: The narcissist may fear losing control over the victim entirely after the discard. Love bombing is an attempt to regain that control and keep the victim emotionally dependent.
Cycle of Abuse: Narcissistic relationships often follow a cycle of idealization, devaluation, and discard. Love bombing is part of the idealization phase that sets the stage for further manipulation and abuse.
Ego Boost: Successfully love bombing someone can further inflate the narcissist's ego and sense of power over others.
Desire for Reconciliation: In some cases, the narcissist may genuinely desire to reconcile with the victim temporarily to prolong the relationship or use them as a backup option while pursuing other interests.
It is essential to recognize love bombing for what it is - a manipulative tactic. If you find yourself in such a situation with a narcissistic individual, it's crucial to establish strong boundaries, seek support from friends or a therapist, and consider the possibility of distancing yourself from the relationship for your own well-being and emotional health. Remember, genuine love and healthy relationships are built on mutual respect, trust, and empathy, which are often lacking in relationships with narcissists.