I can provide some general insights into narcissistic family dynamics.
In narcissistic families, there may be roles assigned to different family members. The "Golden Child" is often the favored one, who receives excessive praise, attention, and validation from the narcissistic parent. On the other hand, the "Scapegoat" is the one who often bears the brunt of the narcissistic parent's negative emotions and is blamed for many things, even if unjustly so.
The relationship between the Golden Child and the narcissistic parent can appear to be harmonious on the surface. The Golden Child may feel special and privileged due to the excessive attention and praise they receive. However, this relationship can be emotionally complex and harmful in the long run.
The Golden Child may experience pressure to meet the parent's expectations continually, which can be emotionally taxing and limit their ability to develop a healthy sense of self. They might also struggle with empathy and understanding the experiences of their siblings or others who are not in the favored position.
Underneath the apparent harmony, there can be underlying tensions and hostility within the family. Siblings of the Golden Child, especially the Scapegoat, may feel neglected, rejected, and resentful due to the unequal treatment they receive from the narcissistic parent. This can lead to strained relationships between family members, with possible long-term emotional consequences for all involved.
It's important to remember that every family dynamic is unique, and not all families with a narcissistic parent will fit this specific pattern. The severity of narcissistic traits and their effects can vary widely, and there can be different family roles and dynamics depending on individual circumstances. If you or someone you know is dealing with challenges related to a narcissistic family member, seeking support from a therapist or counselor can be beneficial in navigating these complex situations.