Yes, it is possible for a narcissist to say that they love you and express affection even after breaking up with you because they think they got back together with someone else. Narcissists are known for their manipulative and self-serving behaviors. They often engage in a pattern of love-bombing and devaluation.
During the love-bombing phase, a narcissist may shower you with affection, compliments, and declarations of love to win you over and gain your trust. This behavior is intended to make you feel valued and special, creating a strong emotional bond.
However, once they achieve their desired outcome or feel secure in their new relationship, the narcissist may switch to the devaluation phase. In this stage, they may suddenly become distant, critical, or dismissive of you, causing confusion and emotional pain.
The cycle of love-bombing and devaluation can repeat itself if they feel it serves their needs or if they sense you pulling away. So, after breaking up with you for another person, they may try to keep you emotionally attached by expressing love and affection when they see a benefit in doing so.
It's important to be cautious and recognize these patterns in a relationship with a narcissist. Protecting yourself emotionally and setting clear boundaries is crucial when dealing with someone who exhibits manipulative and self-centered behavior. If you find yourself in a situation like this, seeking support from friends, family, or a therapist can be beneficial in understanding and coping with the complexities of the relationship dynamics.