Narcissists, by their very nature, have a deep-seated personality disorder characterized by a lack of empathy, an excessive need for admiration, and a sense of entitlement. In their relationships, they often seek to exploit and manipulate others to meet their own needs and desires. While some narcissists may engage in long-term relationships with a new supply, their motivations for doing so may vary.
In some cases, a narcissist may pursue a long-term relationship with a new supply if they believe it can provide them with a consistent source of admiration, validation, and control. They might idealize the new partner during the initial stages of the relationship to make them feel special and valued. However, over time, the idealization phase typically fades, and the narcissist may start devaluing and mistreating the partner as they seek out other sources of validation or excitement.
On the other hand, some narcissists may engage in short-term relationships or flings to fulfill their immediate needs for attention and validation. These relationships may be more about conquest and the thrill of a new pursuit rather than any genuine emotional connection. Once they have obtained what they want from the temporary supply, they may lose interest and move on to new targets.
It is important to note that narcissists' behavior can vary, and not all of them will follow the same patterns. Some may be more inclined towards long-term relationships, while others may prefer short-term encounters. Regardless of the duration of the relationship, being involved with a narcissist can be emotionally and psychologically harmful for the other person involved.
If you suspect you are dealing with a narcissist or have experienced the negative effects of such a relationship, it is essential to seek support and potentially professional help to navigate the emotional challenges and develop healthier relationship patterns in the future.