A covert narcissist, like any other narcissistic individual, may engage in a manipulative tactic known as "future faking" to gain control, maintain their narcissistic supply, and feed their ego. Future faking is a behavior where the narcissist makes grand promises and plans for the future, often with the intention of keeping their target hooked, emotionally invested, and dependent on them.
There are several reasons why a covert narcissist might choose to future fake with only one specific supply:
Control and Manipulation: By future faking with one supply, the covert narcissist can create a strong emotional bond with that person and manipulate them more easily. They use these false promises of a bright future to keep the supply invested and devoted to them, ensuring a steady stream of attention, admiration, and validation.
Empathy and Vulnerability: Covert narcissists often use their apparent vulnerability and emotional sensitivity as a means to appear more relatable and appealing. By sharing their hopes and dreams for the future with one supply, they can foster a sense of intimacy and emotional connection, making the target feel special and uniquely connected to the narcissist.
Ensuring Loyalty: Future faking with only one supply may lead the target to believe that they have a unique and special bond with the narcissist. This can create a strong sense of loyalty in the target, making them less likely to leave or abandon the narcissist, even when the promises are not fulfilled.
Avoiding Exposure: By keeping the future faking limited to one supply, the covert narcissist reduces the chances of other potential targets discovering their manipulative behavior. They may present themselves as genuine, caring, and committed to this particular individual, hiding their true intentions and behavior from others.
Emotional Investment: The covert narcissist may enjoy the emotional power and control they have over this specific supply. They may relish in the feeling of being the center of someone's world, and this supply's unwavering emotional investment boosts their self-esteem and ego.
It's essential to recognize that narcissistic individuals, including covert narcissists, often have complex and manipulative strategies for maintaining their sources of narcissistic supply. Future faking is just one of many tactics they may employ to keep others under their influence. If you suspect you are dealing with a narcissistic individual in any relationship, it's crucial to set healthy boundaries and consider seeking professional support to navigate the situation effectively.