Yes, the scenario you described could be indicative of a "narcissistic injury." A narcissistic injury refers to a situation where a narcissist's self-esteem and self-image are significantly threatened or damaged, leading to a defensive reaction. It occurs when their grandiose self-perception is challenged or shattered, often leading to emotional distress and coping mechanisms to protect their fragile ego.
In the scenario you provided, losing their main supply (a source of validation, admiration, and attention) could be a significant blow to the narcissist's ego. This loss of attention and admiration may trigger feelings of inadequacy, worthlessness, or vulnerability, which the narcissist is likely to avoid at all costs.
As a defense mechanism, some narcissists might choose to change their persona or adopt an entirely different stereotype to protect themselves from feeling exposed or weak. This change in persona could involve adopting a new identity, mimicking others, or trying to appear more desirable to attract new sources of supply.
It's crucial to understand that these changes are typically superficial and not reflective of genuine personal growth or self-awareness. The new persona is often a mask used to gain control over situations or manipulate others into providing the desired supply.
In this state, some narcissists might even appear more benevolent, empathetic, or selfless than before, but it's essential to remain cautious. This transformation is often temporary and serves the purpose of regaining control, admiration, and validation from others.
It's crucial to remember that narcissists typically have deep-rooted personality traits that make genuine change challenging without extensive therapy and self-awareness. They may continue to repeat these patterns of behavior, seeking out new sources of supply and reverting to their true narcissistic traits when they feel more secure again.
If you're dealing with a situation involving a narcissist, setting healthy boundaries and seeking support from friends, family, or a mental health professional is essential for your well-being.