I can offer some general insights into why someone might beg a narcissist to get them back when facing a breakup:
Emotional attachment: During a relationship, people can become emotionally attached to their partners, even if the partner is a narcissist. This attachment can be intense and difficult to let go of, leading to feelings of desperation to maintain the relationship.
Fear of abandonment: Narcissists often use manipulation and emotional abuse to control their partners. As a result, the partner may fear being alone or fear what the narcissist will do if they leave, leading them to beg for another chance.
Hope for change: People may hold onto the hope that the narcissist will change their behavior and become a better partner. This hope can be powerful and drive them to seek reconciliation.
Low self-esteem: Narcissists often target individuals with low self-esteem, making them feel unworthy of love and affection. As a result, the person may believe they won't find anyone else and cling to the narcissist, even if the relationship is toxic.
Manipulation by the narcissist: Narcissists are skilled at manipulation and gaslighting. They may guilt-trip or emotionally manipulate their partners into staying, making it difficult for the person to break away.
Love bombing: Narcissists often engage in "love bombing," where they shower their partner with affection and attention after a conflict or breakup. This behavior can confuse the person and make them believe that the narcissist genuinely cares for them.
It's essential to recognize that being in a relationship with a narcissist can be emotionally and mentally harmful. If you find yourself in such a situation, seeking support from friends, family, or a therapist can be crucial in helping you navigate the challenges of a breakup and rebuilding your self-esteem and well-being.