While I cannot provide specific insight into individual situations, I can offer some general observations about potential reasons for this kind of behavior. Narcissistic individuals can display unpredictable and manipulative behavior in their relationships, and this includes blocking and unblocking on social media platforms.
Here are a few possible explanations for why an ex-narcissist might unblock and reblock you:
Power and Control: Narcissists thrive on power and control in their relationships. Blocking and unblocking you may be a way for them to maintain a sense of control over you and keep you off-balance emotionally.
Hoovering: Narcissists sometimes engage in hoovering, a tactic where they try to draw you back into the relationship after you've gone no contact. By unblocking you, they might be testing to see if you'll react or respond, giving them an opportunity to manipulate you again.
Seeking Attention: Narcissists often crave attention and validation from others. They may unblock you to see if you've tried to reach out or if you've posted something that could be a source of narcissistic supply for them.
Emotional Rollercoaster: Narcissists can be emotionally volatile and might unblock and reblock you as a way to keep you emotionally invested and confused.
Strategic Manipulation: Narcissists are skilled manipulators and may use the blocking/unblocking tactic to make you question yourself, feel hurt, or doubt your decision to go no contact.
Boredom: Sometimes, the narcissist may unblock you out of boredom or curiosity, only to reblock you when they no longer find it amusing or beneficial.
It's essential to recognize that the behavior of a narcissist can be irrational and inconsistent. Trying to understand their motives may lead to frustration and confusion. The best approach in dealing with a narcissist is to maintain strict no contact and focus on your own healing and well-being.
Remember, going no contact and keeping them blocked is essential for your emotional recovery and protection. If you find it challenging to cope with the aftermath of a relationship with a narcissist, consider seeking support from friends, family, or a mental health professional who can provide guidance and understanding.