It's challenging to determine someone's assumptions with certainty, especially when dealing with a narcissist. Narcissists often have a strong desire for control and attention, and they may try various tactics to regain it, including attempting to break no contact.
When you block and disregard a narcissist ex, it can lead to different reactions:
Assumption of control: Narcissists might assume that by blocking and disregarding them, you are displaying a sense of control over the situation. This may challenge their ego and cause them to feel a need to regain control over you and the relationship.
Expectation of breaking no contact: Narcissists might believe that they can break through your boundaries and reestablish contact. They may attempt to manipulate or guilt-trip you into reaching out to them again.
Seeking revenge: Some narcissists might react angrily to being ignored or rejected. They may try to retaliate or seek revenge for what they perceive as an attack on their self-esteem.
Hoovering: "Hoovering" is a term used to describe the act of a narcissist trying to suck you back into the relationship after you've gone no contact. They might use different tactics, such as love-bombing, apologies, or promises to change, to lure you back.
It's important to remember that maintaining no contact with a narcissistic ex is crucial for your well-being and emotional healing. Narcissists often struggle with accepting the end of a relationship and may attempt to manipulate you into engaging with them again. Stay firm in your decision to prioritize your own emotional health and maintain the boundaries you've set.
If you suspect that your ex-narcissist is trying to reach out to you, it's best to continue blocking and ignoring them. Surround yourself with a support system of friends, family, or a therapist who can help you through this process. Focus on self-care and personal growth, as healing from a relationship with a narcissist can be challenging, but ultimately empowering.