Narcissists may approach relationships differently from non-narcissistic individuals. They often seek admiration, attention, and validation from others to boost their fragile self-esteem.
Regarding whether a narcissist has a favorite lover or if they view all partners the same, it can vary from one individual to another. Narcissists can be manipulative and may use people for their own benefit. They might prioritize those who provide the most validation or admiration at a particular time, leading to a seeming "favorite" among their partners.
However, it's important to note that narcissists generally struggle with genuine emotional connection and empathy, so their relationships tend to be more superficial and self-serving. As such, their views of partners can be transactional and lack the depth of emotional connection seen in healthy relationships.
It's essential for individuals dealing with or affected by narcissistic behavior to seek support and possibly professional guidance to navigate such relationships and protect their emotional well-being.