Yes, individuals with narcissistic traits or narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) can become emotionally attached to others. However, their emotional attachments tend to be different from those of individuals without narcissistic tendencies.
People with NPD often struggle with forming deep, empathetic, and mutually supportive emotional attachments. Instead, their emotional connections may be more superficial and centered around their own needs and desires. They may become attached to others because of what they can gain from the relationship, such as admiration, validation, attention, or control.
In the early stages of a relationship, a narcissist may appear very attached and enamored with their partner, showering them with attention and affection. This is known as "love bombing." However, as the relationship progresses, their self-centered nature may become more evident. They might show a lack of empathy, disregard their partner's needs, and be manipulative or controlling.
It's important to note that not every person with narcissistic traits will display the same behavior, and not everyone who exhibits some narcissistic behaviors has NPD. Narcissism exists on a spectrum, and the extent and impact of these traits can vary.
If you are in a relationship with someone who shows significant narcissistic traits, it can be challenging and emotionally draining. It's crucial to set boundaries, prioritize your well-being, and consider seeking support from a therapist who can help you navigate the dynamics of such a relationship. If the relationship becomes emotionally or psychologically harmful, it might be necessary to consider ending it for your own well-being.