Narcissists may continue to attempt contact even after being blocked for several reasons, some of which include:
Need for Control: Narcissists have a strong need for control and power over others. Being blocked can be perceived as a loss of control, leading them to persistently try to reach out and regain control over the situation.
Seeking Attention and Validation: Narcissists crave attention and validation from others. Being blocked denies them the attention they desire, and they may keep calling to elicit a response or to see if they can break the block.
Manipulation and Gaslighting: Narcissists may try to manipulate the person into questioning their decision to block them or make them feel guilty for doing so. They might gaslight by pretending nothing is wrong or that the person is overreacting.
Hoovering: As mentioned earlier, hoovering is a term used to describe the attempts by a narcissist to draw a person back into a relationship or interaction. They may use various tactics, such as love bombing or promising change, to lure the person back in.
Ego Wounding: Being blocked can wound a narcissist's ego, and they may see it as a challenge to their self-image. They might persistently try to contact the person to prove to themselves that they are still in control and desired.
Lack of Empathy: Narcissists often lack empathy and may not fully comprehend or care about the emotional impact of their actions on others, including the effect of being blocked.
Cycle of Abuse: In abusive relationships, blocking or going no contact is a healthy step for the victim to protect themselves. However, the abuser may not respect these boundaries and try to maintain control over their victim.
It's essential to remember that maintaining no contact and setting clear boundaries are crucial when dealing with a narcissist. Their persistence can be challenging to handle emotionally, but it's crucial to prioritize your well-being and safety over their attempts to engage with you. Seeking support from friends, family, or a mental health professional can be helpful in navigating these situations and maintaining healthy boundaries.