Yes, a narcissist's actions are often intentional, at least to some extent. Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is characterized by a pervasive pattern of grandiosity, a constant need for admiration, and a lack of empathy for others. People with NPD typically have an inflated sense of self-importance and believe they are special and entitled to special treatment.
Their behaviors and actions are often driven by a deep-seated need for validation and control over others. They may manipulate situations and people to maintain their self-image and exert power over others. This can lead to manipulative tactics, gaslighting, and other forms of emotional and psychological abuse.
It's important to note that not all actions of individuals with narcissistic traits are necessarily malicious or intentionally harmful. Some may not be aware of the negative impact of their behaviors on others due to their lack of empathy and self-centered perspective.
In any case, dealing with someone who exhibits narcissistic traits can be challenging and emotionally draining. It is essential to set boundaries, prioritize your well-being, and seek support from friends, family, or mental health professionals if you are in a relationship with a narcissist or have experienced the effects of their behavior.