Yes, a narcissist may feel threatened or upset when their "supply" (the person providing attention, admiration, or validation) is in a good mood or having a great day. This reaction is rooted in the narcissist's need for control, validation, and attention.
Narcissists typically crave constant admiration and attention from others to bolster their fragile self-esteem. They often view others as extensions of themselves rather than as separate individuals with their own emotions and experiences. When their supply is happy or successful, the narcissist may perceive it as a loss of control or attention directed away from them.
In such situations, the narcissist may react in various ways:
Jealousy: They may feel jealous of the attention and positive emotions the other person is receiving, as it takes away the spotlight from them.
Manipulation: They might try to undermine the other person's happiness or success by making derogatory comments, belittling their achievements, or creating drama to shift the focus back to themselves.
Devaluation: Some narcissists devalue others to maintain their sense of superiority. They may try to diminish the other person's joy or accomplishments to reinforce their own self-perceived greatness.
Provocation: The narcissist may intentionally provoke a negative emotional reaction from the other person to regain a sense of control over the situation.
It's important to remember that dealing with a narcissist can be challenging and emotionally draining. If you find yourself in a relationship with a narcissist, it's crucial to set healthy boundaries, prioritize your well-being, and consider seeking support from friends, family, or a mental health professional to navigate such dynamics effectively.