Yes, people with borderline personality disorder (BPD) can experience heightened emotional reactions, including annoyance, in response to other people's behavior. BPD is characterized by difficulties in regulating emotions and managing interpersonal relationships, which can lead to intense and sometimes unpredictable emotional responses.
Individuals with BPD may have a heightened sensitivity to perceived rejection or criticism, leading them to react strongly to certain behaviors that others might not find as bothersome. They may also have difficulties with emotional boundaries and may struggle to interpret and respond appropriately to social cues, leading to misunderstandings and conflicts.
It's important to note that everyone's experience with BPD can vary, and not all individuals with the disorder will react the same way to others' behavior. Therapy and counseling can be very beneficial for people with BPD to learn coping mechanisms, emotional regulation skills, and effective communication techniques to better navigate their interpersonal interactions and manage their reactions to others' behavior.