Yes, it is not uncommon for individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) to experience sudden and intense shifts in their relationships, including distancing themselves from people. This behavior is often associated with the unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characteristic of BPD.
People with BPD may have difficulties maintaining stable relationships due to their emotional sensitivity, fear of abandonment, and an intense fear of rejection or perceived criticism. These individuals often have a deep-seated fear of being abandoned or left alone, leading them to form intense and close attachments to others. However, when they sense a perceived threat of rejection or abandonment, they may react strongly by distancing themselves emotionally, physically, or even completely cutting off contact with the other person.
This pattern of behavior is sometimes referred to as "splitting" – a defense mechanism in which individuals with BPD may perceive others as all good or all bad, without the ability to see shades of gray in people or situations. When they perceive someone as being critical or abandoning, they might impulsively distance themselves to protect themselves from potential emotional harm.
It's important to note that these behaviors are not indicative of a person's true feelings or intentions but are instead driven by the challenges associated with BPD. People with BPD often struggle with emotional regulation, which can contribute to these intense and shifting relationships.
If you or someone you know is experiencing difficulties with relationships or other symptoms associated with BPD, seeking help from a mental health professional is crucial. Therapy, such as dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), can be beneficial in helping individuals with BPD manage their emotions, improve interpersonal skills, and develop healthier relationships. Early intervention and appropriate treatment can significantly improve the overall quality of life for individuals with BPD.