In Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) meetings, there is generally no specific consequence for not sharing. The AA program is based on principles of anonymity, mutual support, and personal responsibility. While sharing experiences and thoughts during meetings is encouraged as it can be therapeutic and helpful for both the individual sharing and others in attendance, it is not mandatory.
Some AA meetings might have a tradition of voluntary sharing, where participants are invited but not required to share their experiences or thoughts. Others may have an "open discussion" format, where attendees have the opportunity to share if they wish, but there is no obligation.
The emphasis in AA meetings is on creating a safe and non-judgmental space where individuals can listen and learn from each other's experiences. Many people find that sharing openly about their struggles and successes in recovery can be a valuable part of their healing process, but others may choose to listen and learn from the stories of others without sharing their own.
It's essential to respect individual boundaries and choices in AA meetings and recognize that everyone's journey in recovery is unique. The primary goal of AA is to provide support and fellowship for those seeking to overcome alcohol addiction, regardless of whether an individual chooses to share during a meeting or not.