No, the gender of your baby has no connection with how you feel about your husband or any other emotional state. The belief that a woman's emotions during pregnancy can determine the gender of the baby is a myth and has no scientific basis.
The gender of your baby is determined by the combination of chromosomes from both you and your husband. If you have an XX chromosome pair, you'll conceive a girl, and if you have an XY chromosome pair, you'll conceive a boy. This is determined at the moment of conception and is entirely independent of your feelings or emotions during pregnancy.
It's normal to experience a range of emotions during pregnancy due to hormonal changes and the physical and emotional challenges it brings. If you are struggling with feelings of anger or resentment toward your husband, it may be helpful to seek support from friends, family, or a professional counselor to discuss your feelings and work through any underlying issues. Having open and honest communication with your partner is also essential during this time. Remember, taking care of your emotional well-being is vital for a healthy pregnancy.