There could be several reasons why an abusive ex-boyfriend suddenly stops contacting you, even if he had been persistent in the past. It's important to remember that I can only speculate based on general patterns and behaviors, as each situation is unique, and only the individual involved can truly know their motivations. Here are some possible reasons:
New Source of Supply: Abusive individuals often seek validation and control from their partners. If he has found a new source of emotional or psychological "supply" (a new partner, friend, or activity that fulfills his needs), he may shift his attention away from you.
Loss of Interest: Abusers can be fickle and lose interest when they don't perceive you as fulfilling their needs anymore. This loss of interest could be temporary or due to finding someone else who they believe better suits their needs.
Power and Control: Abusive relationships are about power and control. If he senses that you are becoming more independent or assertive in setting boundaries, he may withdraw to reestablish control over the situation.
Emotional Manipulation: Ceasing contact might be a tactic to manipulate your emotions, making you wonder why he stopped reaching out and keeping you emotionally invested in the relationship.
Moving On: Sometimes, abusive individuals move on from a relationship when they no longer see it as serving their purpose or if they believe they can find someone else who meets their needs better.
External Factors: Life circumstances, personal challenges, or external events could also be influencing his behavior, causing him to stop contacting you.
Regardless of the reasons behind his sudden cessation of contact, it's essential to recognize that this change might not necessarily be permanent or indicative of him genuinely moving on. Abusive individuals can be unpredictable, and they may attempt to reestablish contact in the future. It's crucial to prioritize your safety and well-being by maintaining strict no-contact, seeking support from friends, family, or professionals, and focusing on your healing and personal growth. If you ever feel threatened or unsafe, do not hesitate to seek help from local authorities or support organizations.