Responding to a guy who wants to see you depends on your feelings and the context of your relationship. Here are some general ways to respond:
If you want to see him and are available:
- "Sure, I'd love to see you! When and where works for you?"
If you want to see him but are currently busy:
- "I'd really like to see you too! Unfortunately, I have [prior commitment/activity] on [day]. How about [suggest an alternative day or time]?"
If you're unsure or need more time to decide:
- "I appreciate the invitation. Let me check my schedule and get back to you soon."
If you're not interested in meeting up:
- Be respectful and honest but firm. For example: "Thank you for the offer, but I don't think I can make it."
If you'd like to see him but have concerns or questions:
- "I'd like to see you, but before we meet up, can we talk about [specific concern or question]?"
If you're not interested in seeing him at all:
- Be polite but clear. For example: "I appreciate your interest, but I'm not interested in meeting up right now."
Remember, communication is essential. Be clear about your intentions, and if you want to see him, suggest a date, time, or activity that works for you. If you're not interested, it's okay to kindly decline, as leading someone on can be hurtful in the long run. Honesty and respect are key in any interaction.