The question of whether to resist the inevitable is a complex one, as it can depend on one's perspective, values, and specific circumstances. Here are a few points to consider:
Defining the Inevitable: First, it's important to truly understand what is "inevitable." Often, what may seem like a certainty may not be so. Predictions about the future can be wrong, and situations can change unexpectedly.
Growth and Learning: Even when an outcome seems inevitable, the process of striving against it can lead to personal growth, learning, and development. The journey can sometimes be just as, if not more, important than the destination.
Influence on the Outcome: While the overall outcome might not change, your actions could influence the nature of that outcome. For example, if a person is dealing with a terminal illness, fighting the inevitable might not change the ultimate outcome, but it might mean better quality of life in the meantime, or more time with loved ones.
Value and Principle: Sometimes, we fight against inevitable outcomes because it's a matter of principle. Standing up for what you believe in, even in the face of assured defeat, can be a powerful statement of your values and integrity.
Coping Mechanism: Resistance can sometimes be a way of processing the situation. It can help you come to terms with the reality of the situation and eventually reach a point of acceptance.
However, constantly fighting the inevitable can also lead to unnecessary stress and prevent acceptance of reality. It's a delicate balance. The key lies in understanding what you can change, taking action where possible, and finding the grace to accept what you cannot change. This concept is beautifully encapsulated in the Serenity Prayer often quoted in various forms of therapy and self-help contexts.
It's a complex issue with no one-size-fits-all answer. What's important is to consider your feelings, your values, and the potential costs and benefits before deciding your course of action. And remember, it's always okay to seek support from others when grappling with these kinds of difficult questions.